Pheromones – Does a Law on Human Attraction Exist?

Pheromones – Elixir or Myth?

Some of you may find this article intriguing. Some may find it disgusting. And some may just find it a bit “on the nose”! But, you need to think, where would we all be without our olfactory sense?

“Opposites attract” is a law of attraction, at least where electromagnetism is concerned. But are there laws about attraction between two people? For men, It is a thinking that How to mentally attract women? “In a world that is full of strangers” as a line in a famous song of the 1980’s goes, is there a clear set of rules that allows two people to fall for each other? Romantic passion stays active for about 2 weeks. Is that the time it takes for us to get accustomed to the pheromones of the other person? e.g. female pheromones to attract men.

Do Pheromones actually work? Is attraction a matter of chemistry?

Chemical effects of Pheromones

Maybe. According to scientists, the attraction between animals of the opposite sex is all about chemicals called pheromones. The effect of pheromones in behavior of insects is the most studied to date. It has been observed, at least in some experiments, that pheromones are responsible for communication among same species and colony of ants. The horrible odor released by skunks to ward off enemies is said to be a kind of pheromone. Some species of apes rub pheromone-containing urine on the feet of potential mates to attract them. Some scientists believe that animals (usually the females) such as insects and mammals send out these chemical signals to tell the male of their species that their genes are different from theirs. This gene diversity is important in producing offspring with better chances of survival. The perfume industry has capitalized on pheromones as a means to increase one’s sexual attractiveness to the opposite sex. Animals such as the whale and the musk deer were hunted down for these chemicals.

Lately, scientists are looking into the existence of human pheromones and its role in mate selection. There are many conflicting views in the realm of biology, chemistry, genetics, and psychology. Most scientists would assert that these do not exist, or if they do, do not play a role in sexual attraction between a man and a woman. But new researches such as that conducted by Swiss researchers from the University of Bern led by Klaus Wedekind are slowly making these scientists rethink their stand. Their experiment involved women sniffing the cotton shirts of different men during their ovulation period. It was found out that women prefer the smell of men’s shirts that were genetically different, but also shared similarities with the women’s genes. This, like in the case of insects and other mammals, was to ensure better and healthier characteristics for their future children. But researchers also cautioned that preference for a male odor is affected by the women’s ovulation period, the food that men eat, perfumes and other scented body products, and the use of contraceptive pills.

Does personality figure in sexual attraction?

Yes, but so does your perception of a potential mate’s personality, there are four basic personality types. According to a research conducted by Klohnen, E.C., & S. Luo in 2003 on interpersonal attraction and personality, a person’s sense of self-security and at least the person’s perception of his/her partner were found to be strong determinants of attraction in hypothetical situations. What does this tell us? We prefer a certain personality type, which attracts you to a person. But aside from the actual personality of the person, which can only be verified through close interaction through time, it is your perception of your potential partner that attracts you to him/her, whether the person of your affection truly has that kind of personality or not. How much do ‘unseen’ pheromones play a part in the continued affection? This could probably account for a statement commonly heard from men and women on their failed relationships: “I thought he/she was this kind of person.”

So how does attraction figure in relationships?

You have probably heard that attraction is a prelude, or a factor towards a relationship. Most probably, at least in the beginning; but attraction alone cannot make a relationship work. It is that attraction that makes you notice a person from the opposite sex, but once you get to know the person more, attraction is just one consideration. Shared values, dreams, and passions become more significant in long-term relationships.

So should I stop trying to become attractive?

Smelly Pheromones…

More than trying to become physically attractive, work on all aspects of your health: physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. Physical attraction is still a precursor. Remember, biology, including pheromones, predisposes us to choose the partner with the healthiest genes. Where your emotions are concerned, just ask this to yourself: would you want to spend time with a person who feels insecure about him/herself? Probably not! There is wisdom in knowing yourself: who you are, your beliefs, values, and dreams. And do not pretend to be someone you are not. Fooling another person by making him/her think that you share the same values and beliefs is only going to cause you both disappointments. When you are healthy in all aspects, attractiveness becomes a consequence and not an end. As mentioned in the Klohnen and Luo’s research, a person’s sense of self-security matters, perhaps even beyond attraction. But remember: do these things for yourself and not for other people. Only then can you truly harness your attractiveness as a person.

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The Law of Attraction And The Secrets Of Gaining Your Goals

The Law of Attraction, I have been teaching that and using it for over 20 years, long before “The Secret” came out. It is based on ‘sympathetic vibration‘ and anything that disrupts this flow of energy will cause the flow to stop. The point is, you need to have clarity in order to be able to be connected with the flow of The Law of Attraction “activities”.

Here is something that may give you the incentive to take a closer look at this. Many of you have attempted to use The Law of Attraction to gain your goals, and failed. So therefore you question it, or even proclaim that it doesn’t work, or that it’s a fraud.

The Law of Attraction Example

For example, if you are an archer your objective is to hit the bull’s eye however, if something disrupts your concentration then your objective will never be achieved.  Even if you continue to shoot arrows and be accurate, you still develop and strengthen a belief that you cannot and never will be able to hit the target because you are distracted. You have put so much effort on aiming the bull’s eye, you even prepared for your success however you have a bit of doubt in your system that this isn’t gonna work.

The good news is, you can correct the problem because you alone created it to begin with. Don’t be hard on yourself. Don’t beat yourself up. You just didn’t know and you have just now found out. You should not be depressed as depression may pull your energy off on using The Law of Attraction. If you are acting right away on your failure then everything else will pull you down. Your BELIEF is paramount! Even when you believe consciously, if your subconscious hasn’t bought in, then it won’t happen. So now we have covered a few of the things you need to pay attention to with regards of activating The Law of Attraction and having success with it.

The Law of Attraction on Lucky Persons

Have you ever known someone who is lucky and always lands on their feet? Observe this “lucky person”, you may notice that they know and expect nothing else. Things always fall right for them because they believe that they are lucky and claim it.

They are strengthened time and again by things always going the right way for them because they are using The Law of Attraction.

In our archer’s example above, you also have these beliefs – they just happen to be in the opposite direction.

Many of you have attempted to use the The Law of Attraction to gain your goals, and failed. Therefore you question it, or even proclaim that it doesn’t work or that it’s a fraud. However, you need to ask yourself – is it because The Law of Attraction doesn’t really work or because you have disrupted the flow, right from the beginning?

If you have done all the things they said to do and you still didn’t get results from The Law of Attraction, as you have already vested allot of time and energy to make it work. Brain Management and Mental Photography can give you a huge leg-up to gain the techniques and the understanding of what it takes to make the Secret work for you.

Remember: The flow of energy should not be disrupted or else your negative beliefs may be strengthened that The Law of Attraction failed you.

 

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The Secret Law of Attraction – The Missing Link

The Secret Law of Attraction has a missing link, do you know what it is?

The Secret Law of Attraction would be more effective if you have already tried a bunch of things or shall we say if you have already traveled the road. However, most people have not traveled the road yet, so how are they going to absorb The Secret?

Even if you haven’t tried a bunch of things yet, you can still absorb The Secret Law of Attraction by filling the gap between you and The Secret. The missing component in The Secret will be found in any one of our Trainings; ZOX Pro Training, the Brain Management Seminar, or eBrain Executive Seminar to be able to achieve results with the Secret. Our trainings assist people to find themselves and find their own path through life. The Mental Photography which has the inherent ability to strengthen the brain, clear out the cobwebs, and allow the brain to function as it should – FAST and CLEAN that will make The Secret Law of Attraction 100 times more effective.

Scientists studied some of our clients who were using Mental Photography and they have observed that there was a brainwave output showing that there was something different happening.

Do you want The Secret Law of Attraction to work for you?

If you have already invested a lot of time and energy and have done all the things that The Secret said to do and still not achieved the results you wanted, then Brain Management and Mental Photography can give you a huge leg-up to gain the techniques and the understanding of what it takes to make the Secret work for you.

Remember: If you just didn’t have all the information up front, do not blame yourself neither all those ‘Secret’ Coaches! Well, we are here to fill the gap between you and The Secret Law of Attraction effectiveness.

The Secret Law of Attraction really works if you have fill in the gaps and prepare to participate.

We have applied Fuzzy Logic in our technology to make our system, and systems like the Secret Law of Attraction much easier. We have a seminar in Australia for this called the “eBrain Executive Seminar” and this will really keep you on track.

What is My Agenda?

My agenda is whatever YOUR agenda is. Feel free to think, feel, and be who you want to be, to find the best you can be; trust Yourself!

So, what is my objective?

My objective is to help those that want to help themselves to GAIN CLARITY to fully utilize The Secret Law of Attraction! We all want to live in a world that is kind, loving, and abundant, NOT a  life full of fear, disease, and need. So isn’t it about time you did just that?

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Brain Management: Life Lessons, Pain & Success

I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “Learn from your experiences”.  Whilst this is true, it is not necessarily true that you need to personally experience the lesson to any great degree in order to learn from it.  It is possible for you to learn from the lessons’ that others have experienced and the roads they have traveled.  In learning from others experiences, you can receive the full benefit of those lessons and avoid the pain that often accompanies such learning.

Pain is Life’s Great Teacher

Let’s face it, pain is associated with all lessons. To find out which lesson you’re supposed to be learning, you need to look at the source of your pain and whatever it is attached to (physical, health, stress, spiritual, emotional, financial etc) – what remains is the base lesson you need to learn.

If we fail to learn the lesson the first time, the lesson is presented again and again.  Until we learn the lesson, we will experience the same pain each time.

Success is “What We Have Given Up”

The quote is “Success is NOT gauged on what you have gained, but by what you have given up”. However, the Law of Attraction contradicts this and the implication that success is measured by what you have given up, has negative connotations.

A person who believes that success is based on what you have given up,  is likely to have suffered a lot of pain during their journey to success – thus considering their success as a series of concessions or losses.

Someone who has enjoyed their journey, will not view it as what they have given up or lost.  Their view of success will have a more positive outlook.

The thing is that each person will deal with the quote as they choose, based on their experiences.

Perseverance Is The Key

You will learn from your pain and experiences, just as you would eat an elephant – one bite at a time. Eventually you will get there, stronger than you started and with more knowledge.

As you choose to pursue success, you need to answer the following questions:

  • What is your success strategy?
  • Just how committed are you to achieving this success?
  • How determined are you in achieving the goal?
  • Will you persevere through adverse conditions and experiences?
  • Do you have enough willpower and focus to see you through?

Out of all of these qualities, it is the perseverance, stamina and commitment that will see you through to the end.  Having a perfect plan, but no stamina will most likely result in failing to achieve the goal.  However, having a less than perfect plan but a strong balance of the other attributes will more likely result in success.

Using Brain Management techniques, you will increase your brain power and subconscious mind power.  Not only are you improving yourself, you are adding to the global consciousness in a phenomenal way.

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Leave Your Poverty Mindset At The Door, With Brain Management

The quote “Success is NOT gauged on what you have gained, but by what you have given up” is limited. In the Law of Attraction, if you think you have given up (or lost) something along the way, you automatically attract whatever you were unfortunate (or fortunate) enough to lose back into your life.  This includes a poverty mindset.

In understanding this, you can change how you view what you have lost (or given up) to ensure that you don’t re-attract it back into your life.  One way you can do this, is to focus on being true to yourself, committed, resourceful, and passionate on your path of success.  Isn’t it better to view those things you have given up, as making room for these values / attributes in your life?  Certainly, leaving a poverty mindset behind and making room to be resourceful in generating more income is a great thing.

Like Losing an Old Friend…

Leaving a poverty consciousness behind is difficult; the subconscious mind is protecting you by keeping that poverty consciousness in place and until you address it, you will continually sabotage yourself in any effort to change your life.

Let’s think of the poverty mindset as an Old Friend that has been around forever. It is something you can rely on even though this friend brought their problems with them. This friend (mindset) is something you are comfortable with, and you have likely taken great pains to protect it against criticism and made excuses for it.  Leaving this mindset behind feels like you are tossing that old friend onto the rubbish heap and not looking back.

Leaving our old friend behind can cause a lot of pain – but does it really have to be? If what you’re leaving behind allows you to make room for newer, more positive attributes – isn’t that a good thing?

Be Dedicated, Be Committed – Persevere

To truly leave your ‘unwanted’ baggage behind, you need to be dedicated, committed and simply persevere until you achieve what you are seeking.

Most of us understand what dedication and commitment mean and that the two are inextricably linked with each other however, we are often confused by what perseverance actually is.  Perseverance is ‘sticking power’ – how long you stick at something, simply keep plugging away until you achieve your objective.

Perseverance is different for every one – it is based on your own values. How long you stick to your guns and decide what to give up, is completely up to you.

Perseverance can sometimes be called “The Fight”.

When you are engaged in “The Fight”, there could actually be no outcome – no winner, no loser. However, you should embrace all of the lessons you experience and become the better for them.  This is where Brain Management comes into play – you can use these techniques to help you embed the lessons from your experiences in your subconscious.

Remember – when you eat an elephant, you eat it bite by bite… this is just what I mean by perseverance.

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